One of my favourite lingerie stores is having a big sale and I just bought fuchsia stockings and a heart shaped riding crop. I sense some pretty joyful beatings in the near future. 

keilauren: Keilauren de Vries, Nymphet, 2014. Acrylic on various fabrics.This artwork comprises of 5 paintings I did, each a meter wide. I stretched the canvases myself with different types of fabrics and painted on them while keeping the fabric raw. 

One of my favourite lingerie stores is having a big sale and I just bought fuchsia stockings and a heart shaped riding crop. I sense some pretty joyful beatings in the near future. 

keilauren: Keilauren de Vries, Nymphet, 2014. Acrylic on various fabrics.
This artwork comprises of 5 paintings I did, each a meter wide. I stretched the canvases myself with different types of fabrics and painted on them while keeping the fabric raw. 

New Crush Courtesy of the Feminist Porn Conference 2014: Episode 1 Madison Young

One of the greatest side effects of attending the Feminist Porn Conference a few weeks ago was having the chance to get to know new performers and directors I hadn’t been exposed to before. 

I’m one of those people who crushes a lot harder on folks when I have had the chance to talk to them, hear about their interests and get to know them a bit. I am also a sapiosexual, and hearing these intelligent entertainers speak about topics they are passionate about ignited my flame in a way that simply perusing porn vids never could. 

Without further ado, may I introduce Madison Young. 

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Madison describes herself as a “sex-positive Tasmanian devil” and a sexual revolutionary. 

She is a porn performer, feminist, artist, film director, sex-educator, gallery director, sex-coach, Mother, and has recently penned a memoir called Daddy

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When she was on the panel at a session called "Rope Sluts, and Bottoms, and Subs Oh My!" I found myself hanging onto her every word. The way she spoke of her identity as a submissive really resonated with me. 

Some of my favourite Madison Young quotes from that particular session:

"I’m very aggressive in my submission. I swallow and engulf dominant energy and pain like I would a part of their body."

"BDSM does not depend on the gender or genitals of the people involved. It’s an exchange of energy as equals. It’s gifting loving energy and sensation from one person to another. Many people think bdsm can’t coexist with feminism, but bdsm allows so much space for it."

"My submission, my feminism, my queerness does not depend on someone else. It is part of my identity. I wanted to document how I like to have sex. I am a feminist, & I am kinky, so my porn was going to be feminist kink porn. I can’t be inauthentic."

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When I got home I read more about Madison, including her artistic statement for her gallery show Becoming MILF, an artistic commentary on Motherhood and sexuality. I continued to be struck by her unique voice and fearless message. 

I knew I was smitten when after the session we were chatting and I asked her about her upcoming projects… she described a Davie Bowie themed Ziggy Stardust porn in which SHE PLAYS DAVID BOWIE!!!! DAVID BOWIE THEMED PORN!!!!! 

Madison Young on Twitter

Madison Young’s website The Sex-pert Next Door

Purchase Daddy: A Memoir by Madison Young

All day yesterday I thought I was chilly because I have a cold, turns out nope, our boiler had broken down. Either way, going on 24 hours of no heat and the sniffles. Tea and fuzzy hoodies are keeping me going. I am posting hot fucking people all day to try and keep warm. 

Meow: tessmunster

All day yesterday I thought I was chilly because I have a cold, turns out nope, our boiler had broken down. Either way, going on 24 hours of no heat and the sniffles. Tea and fuzzy hoodies are keeping me going. I am posting hot fucking people all day to try and keep warm. 

Meow: tessmunster

Perfection. 

Stoya by seanandseng POP magazine Issue 28 (spring/summer 2013)

Perfection. 

Stoya by  POP magazine Issue 28 (spring/summer 2013)

Fucking hell yes… all the right things.

(Sigh. This post is talkin’ to a girl who needs a serious spanking.) (And not the sweet friendly spanks she got last night, the real kind that make her fuss.) (The girl who needs a spanking is me, in case that was unclear.) (Also who is this gorgeous woman?) (ED: This gorgeous woman is Nazanin Mandi and I’m in looooove.)

(Source: littletreasuress)

Tumblrs and tumblrettes, a round of applause for the lovely Ms. Macaroones.

Tumblrs and tumblrettes, a round of applause for the lovely Ms. Macaroones.

Heart’s Holiday Guide: Pamper Them
This one is a no brainer, and kind of a classic gift in general. But if your partner is a Mother or is in a care-giving profession I can guarantee you they are in need of some pampering.Many of us who spend so much time taking care of the needs of others neglect our own.
A gift certificate for a massage, manicure/pedicure, or appointment at the hair-salon are a concrete way to encourage someone who doesn’t make self-care a priority to do so. If you happen to have any of those skills you can make a coupon for your services that they can cash in at any time. If you can afford to splurge on professional services do so, it’s a great way to support local businesses. (For massages always ensure the services are with a Registered Massage Therapist.)
Home based ideas for pampering can include aromatherapy candles or bath-salts, a luxurious bath pillow for relaxation in the tub, their favourite teas with a fancy big mug or a new set of super comfy pyjamas.
My very favourite pampering ideas take it a step further:
If your partner enjoys massage, yoga, or being touched appropriately do them a favour and book them a Thai Yoga Massage. Seriously. This is one of my favourite things on the planet. From the first time I had one I was hooked. Thai Massages are done on floor mats while you are wearing loose clothing. You do not need to be flexible or in good shape. The therapist will help you to stretch your muscles during the massage. I get so relaxed I have been known to drool during these treatments. Thai massages are so good for the body and your partner will walk away feeling like a million bucks.
If your partner enjoys wearing make up book them a makeover at a local establishment (alternately chains like The Body Shop, MAC, Aveda and Sephora all offer this service.) Not only is it really pleasant having someone spoil you with creams and soft brushes, but it’s a great boost to the self-esteem to spend time with a good cosmetician who will help you learn how to enhance your best features. It’s also a fantastic way to learn some new tricks and shake up your makeup routine, most of us who wear cosmetics get in the habit of doing the same old thing over and over. Adding something new to this routine helps inspire your creativity and shake things up. And you walk away feeling beautiful. (Make sure to fawn over your partners new look when you see them!)
A Hitachi Magic Wand. Just do it. If your partner does not have one, they need one. It works so well as a massager and even better as a sex toy. It is a purchase you will not regret. I especially recommend this if your partner requires a lot of stimulation to orgasm, struggles to orgasm, stresses out about taking forever to orgasm or really loves to orgasm.
Pampering gifts say to your partner “You are worthy of care. Here. Have some.” What a great holiday message.
(Pampering gifts are also the perfect gift to give yourself!)

Heart’s Holiday Guide: Pamper Them

This one is a no brainer, and kind of a classic gift in general. But if your partner is a Mother or is in a care-giving profession I can guarantee you they are in need of some pampering.Many of us who spend so much time taking care of the needs of others neglect our own.

A gift certificate for a massage, manicure/pedicure, or appointment at the hair-salon are a concrete way to encourage someone who doesn’t make self-care a priority to do so. If you happen to have any of those skills you can make a coupon for your services that they can cash in at any time. If you can afford to splurge on professional services do so, it’s a great way to support local businesses. (For massages always ensure the services are with a Registered Massage Therapist.)

Home based ideas for pampering can include aromatherapy candles or bath-salts, a luxurious bath pillow for relaxation in the tub, their favourite teas with a fancy big mug or a new set of super comfy pyjamas.

My very favourite pampering ideas take it a step further:

  • If your partner enjoys massage, yoga, or being touched appropriately do them a favour and book them a Thai Yoga Massage. Seriously. This is one of my favourite things on the planet. From the first time I had one I was hooked. Thai Massages are done on floor mats while you are wearing loose clothing. You do not need to be flexible or in good shape. The therapist will help you to stretch your muscles during the massage. I get so relaxed I have been known to drool during these treatments. Thai massages are so good for the body and your partner will walk away feeling like a million bucks.
  • If your partner enjoys wearing make up book them a makeover at a local establishment (alternately chains like The Body Shop, MAC, Aveda and Sephora all offer this service.) Not only is it really pleasant having someone spoil you with creams and soft brushes, but it’s a great boost to the self-esteem to spend time with a good cosmetician who will help you learn how to enhance your best features. It’s also a fantastic way to learn some new tricks and shake up your makeup routine, most of us who wear cosmetics get in the habit of doing the same old thing over and over. Adding something new to this routine helps inspire your creativity and shake things up. And you walk away feeling beautiful. (Make sure to fawn over your partners new look when you see them!)
  • A Hitachi Magic Wand. Just do it. If your partner does not have one, they need one. It works so well as a massager and even better as a sex toy. It is a purchase you will not regret. I especially recommend this if your partner requires a lot of stimulation to orgasm, struggles to orgasm, stresses out about taking forever to orgasm or really loves to orgasm.

Pampering gifts say to your partner “You are worthy of care. Here. Have some.” What a great holiday message.

(Pampering gifts are also the perfect gift to give yourself!)


This is what I daydream about….

courtneytrouble: love this photo. love two queer as fuck femmes with kiss proof lipstick, long lashes, and fierce lingerie ready to devour each other. there’s nothing fake about this. femme is queer.
courtney trouble & sandy bottoms / photo by mickey mod

This is what I daydream about….

courtneytrouble: love this photo. love two queer as fuck femmes with kiss proof lipstick, long lashes, and fierce lingerie ready to devour each other. there’s nothing fake about this. femme is queer.

courtney trouble & sandy bottoms / photo by mickey mod

"A loving heart is the truest wisdom.” -Charles Dickens

"A loving heart is the truest wisdom.
-Charles Dickens

(Source: naughty-butt-nice)

"Lolita, when she chose, could be a most exasperating brat. I was not really quite prepared for her fits of disorganized boredom, intense and vehement griping, her sprawling, droopy, dopey-eyed style, and what is called goofing off — a kind of diffused clowning which she thought was tough in a boyish hoodlum way."
- Vladimir Nabokov, Lolita, Part Two, Ch. 1

"Lolita, when she chose, could be a most exasperating brat. I was not really quite prepared for her fits of disorganized boredom, intense and vehement griping, her sprawling, droopy, dopey-eyed style, and what is called goofing off — a kind of diffused clowning which she thought was tough in a boyish hoodlum way."

- Vladimir Nabokov, Lolita, Part Two, Ch. 1

(Source: pedalfar)

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