thinkivykink:

Here’s my contribution to herdirtylittleheart's awesome #happybirthdayheart challenge. 
I talk a lot about how Heart was one of the people pivotal in making me as brave(ish) as I’ve become. So, I wanted to do something super brave for this. It ended up sort of happening on the fly, but I’m thrilled with the result.
My vanilla friends and I took a crazy road trip to climb a crazy thing. Something you should know about me is that I hate hate hate hate hate heights. I didn’t think I’d actually end up going up to the top. But, somehow, I did.
I was so high on adrenaline and so ecstatic that I pulled my pants down to moon the distance I’d climbed and asked one of my vanilla friends to take a picture of my butt.
And you know what? She did it!
I maybe would’ve made a few different artistic choices had I been in charge, but here’s my offering to the Birthday Game. Recently, I was speaking to Heart about how awesome and brave people are being, and how inspirational it is to see what being brave means to each person. What I did here was an important step on two fronts in my life: conquering my anxiety-related fears and being my full, unabashed self in front of my friends.
On the way down, one of my other friends leaned over and said, “I think what you did was great. A lot of people would go up and carve their name into a tree or something. But this is something you can have from a time you did something wild and brave to always remember how that felt.”
So Happy Birthday, Heart. Your presence on this site is important and inspiring. Thank you for the excuse/opportunity you’ve given us this month.

The kindest words from such a sweet kitty. <3

thinkivykink:

Here’s my contribution to herdirtylittleheart's awesome #happybirthdayheart challenge. 

I talk a lot about how Heart was one of the people pivotal in making me as brave(ish) as I’ve become. So, I wanted to do something super brave for this. It ended up sort of happening on the fly, but I’m thrilled with the result.

My vanilla friends and I took a crazy road trip to climb a crazy thing. Something you should know about me is that I hate hate hate hate hate heights. I didn’t think I’d actually end up going up to the top. But, somehow, I did.

I was so high on adrenaline and so ecstatic that I pulled my pants down to moon the distance I’d climbed and asked one of my vanilla friends to take a picture of my butt.

And you know what? She did it!

I maybe would’ve made a few different artistic choices had I been in charge, but here’s my offering to the Birthday Game. Recently, I was speaking to Heart about how awesome and brave people are being, and how inspirational it is to see what being brave means to each person. What I did here was an important step on two fronts in my life: conquering my anxiety-related fears and being my full, unabashed self in front of my friends.

On the way down, one of my other friends leaned over and said, “I think what you did was great. A lot of people would go up and carve their name into a tree or something. But this is something you can have from a time you did something wild and brave to always remember how that felt.”

So Happy Birthday, Heart. Your presence on this site is important and inspiring. Thank you for the excuse/opportunity you’ve given us this month.

The kindest words from such a sweet kitty. <3

My husband still counts this as one of his greatest photographic achievements. 
(Photo from April 2011 - reposting without the old messy watermark)

My husband still counts this as one of his greatest photographic achievements. 

(Photo from April 2011 - reposting without the old messy watermark)

For more than 3 years I have had this badass friend I call Limon (citrustree is her current bloggy, and yes that is her shaved head and cute butt above) who lived an ocean away but was always there for me when shit got real. And today I FINALLY GET TO MEET HER IN REAL LIFE! 
Today is the kind of day that makes me so happy to be alive and living in this beautiful city, and this weekends plans are so awesome I&#8217;m gonna have to pinch myself to make sure it&#8217;s real&#8230;. 

For more than 3 years I have had this badass friend I call Limon (citrustree is her current bloggy, and yes that is her shaved head and cute butt above) who lived an ocean away but was always there for me when shit got real. And today I FINALLY GET TO MEET HER IN REAL LIFE! 

Today is the kind of day that makes me so happy to be alive and living in this beautiful city, and this weekends plans are so awesome I’m gonna have to pinch myself to make sure it’s real…. 

Well.
That did not go the way I had planned.
There was a crop involved and as you can see I am some sort of winner. 
I had a good first kiss and got tipsy and filthy mouthed and there was some sort of dom-off one-upmanship happening which was fucking hot because I was the one bent over and I fiiiiinally understand Drunk In Love like fully with my heart.
I&#8217;m drankin. I&#8217;m sanging. 
WE BE ALL NIGHT!

Well.

That did not go the way I had planned.

There was a crop involved and as you can see I am some sort of winner. 

I had a good first kiss and got tipsy and filthy mouthed and there was some sort of dom-off one-upmanship happening which was fucking hot because I was the one bent over and I fiiiiinally understand Drunk In Love like fully with my heart.

I’m drankin. I’m sanging. 

WE BE ALL NIGHT!

A moment of adoration and appreciation for one of my favourite kink blogs, spankaway (aka snowflake roasting service). Reading about Snow and her adventures always inspired me, and the way they chronicled their journey as a couple is beautiful. I loved how they documented the reality of healthy kink, always highlighting after care and good communication. I’ve learned so much from following their story. I am so sad to hear they are closing their blog, and am wishing them both the very best. <3 <3

spankawayA cute little scene from Snow’s “missed school” caning. While toughing it out through the second cane, she requested Sumba to squeeze in her hand. It took me five minutes to find the little guy and I had to turn the room upside down, but even though she gave me “don’t worry about it” signals, I proclaimed stuffie access an inalienable right :)

All posts from this session.

She makes it so easy

to convince him

there’s nothing that needs doing

outside of their bed. 

(Source: nonotnever)

For the first time ever I had a dream about being on my hoop. 
It was magical. 
I didn&#8217;t want to wake up.
(I&#8217;m posting beauties all day.)

For the first time ever I had a dream about being on my hoop. 

It was magical. 

I didn’t want to wake up.

(I’m posting beauties all day.)

There&#8217;s only one thing on my mind today.
Bunny is blissfully checked out. 
I&#8217;ll be in la-la land if you need me.

There’s only one thing on my mind today.

Bunny is blissfully checked out. 

I’ll be in la-la land if you need me.

At Pride the organizers fund-raise by asking for donations for these identity stickers. There are dozens of diverse options that describe a spectrum of genders and sexual identities. I appreciate the transparency they bring to flirting. 

At Pride the organizers fund-raise by asking for donations for these identity stickers. There are dozens of diverse options that describe a spectrum of genders and sexual identities. I appreciate the transparency they bring to flirting. 

(Source: herdirtylittleheart)

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